On the second day of Cambodia
Sleeping and Waking
For most of us, the first night in Cambodia saw us sleeping and waking periodically throughout the night, what with the new and unfamiliar sleeping arrangements from what we were used to, and definitely no thanks to the rooster that crowed incessantly at 2 plus am and a team-mates snooze alarm clock that went off every 15 minutes from 2 am to 4 am. Nevertheless, we all got up at about 5 am and took turns to wash up and get ready for the day ahead.
As my team was leading devotions for the day, I got ready to meet my team-mates by 5.40 am. While waiting for the rest to get ready, I did my quiet time for the day and for one of the first times in my life, I sensed the Lords presence in the stillness of the morning. There was a stirring in my heart and a warmth enveloped my heart. At that point in time, I just knew that the Lord was there with us in Cambodia. I prayed for the Lord to guide my actions and words throughout the trip because I knew that with the lack of sleep we were bound to have, I would tire easily and end up being a grouch. Amazingly enough, He answered my prayers and I was excited and enthusiastic throughout the whole trip despite the lack of sleep.
Devotions: God has a mission and that mission is you
At 6 am, our team came together for devotions at the worship hall and I shared with the team on the topic God has a mission and that mission is you. This was something that the Lord had impressed on my heart a few days before we left for Cambodia, a very pertinent message for our team in the mission field as it stressed the importance of not only sharing our testimonies, our songs and dances, but also how we carried ourselves as ambassadors of Christ. The message was very much in line with what Auntie Joyce had shared with us during one of our team training sessions previously, that God had handpicked each and every member of the team for a purpose and that it was up to us to fulfill that purpose. In addition, as part of the body of Christ, we had to learn to work as a team, because each member is blessed with different gifts, and just like the different parts of the body that cannot function well without the other parts, so too we as a mission team cannot function well without the contributions of our other team members.
Be thankful for the food!
After devotions, we had breakfast at 6.30am and this meal came as a surprise to many, particularly because we had rice and a dish for breakfast. For me, this was an experience to remember, because back in Singapore, I usually do not have breakfast, and even if I did have breakfast, it would be a light one. Never did I imagine that rice could be served as part of breakfast. But well, we learn something new everyday, and during meal times in Cambodia, we learnt that food doesnt come easily and that we were to finish everything that was put before us and be thankful for what we had. This made many of us realize how blessed we were back in Singapore when we could pick and choose the food we wanted to have, scorning dishes that were not to our liking. In Cambodia, we too were blessed with original and scrumptious dishes of food, and every meal saw us having rice and one dish, for example a dish comprising of vegetables and meat or vegetables and soup. Once again, this was something new to us, as back in Singapore, we usually have about 2 to 4 dishes on the dinner table, but in Cambodia, we had all the dishes rolled into one, pretty ingenuous indeed!
Phua Chu Kang Wannabes
The bulk of our second day saw us having some hands-on action at scraping, painting and sand-papering. Donning our cloth masks which protected our mouths and noses from settling paint dust, the youths marched out to the main gate of the PKH Centre and proceeded to take turns to scrape the old paint off the walls of the Centre using a hand-held brush covered with stiff metal hairs. This was no easy task, especially since there were more than 10 wall panels that had to be scraped before the repainting of the walls could take place. It was no wonder that quite a few of us were convinced that our arms gained some additional muscles after this stint.
When the scraping was done, we used roller brushes to paint the walls and smaller brushes to touch up the corners, a very fun experience indeed. You should have seen the pride on our faces when the walls stood proudly with their fresh coat of paint, after our 3 plus hour stint from 8 am to 12 noon. You should also have seen the state of our clothes and our arms, legs and hair when we were done. They were splotched with paint and covered with a layer of white dust, so much so that quite a few of us looked as if we had aged many years in the 3 plus hours.
While the youths were busy getting their hands dirty, the younger kids were roped in sandpapering the old varnish of the stools in the canteen. They worked hard all morning and were proud to show off the fruits of their labour when we all stopped for a short break at 10.30am, when we feasted on yummy bread with patte or peanut-butter and jelly. After the short break, some of the youths continued with painting, while others, under the tutelage of our very experienced kids on our team, tried our hand at sandpapering the stools as well. We sandpapered and sang as we worked, only stopping for brief moments to get the quality-check approval from our young teachers, before we continued sandpapering another leg of the stools.
This whole experience was an eye-opener indeed! I mean, where in Singapore do you get to be Phua Chu Kang for a day? After this contracting stint, we had lunch at 12 and proceed to pack goodie bags for the kids and youths that we would be interacting with over the next 4 days of the trip.
Packing goodie bags and Breaking the Ice at SOH
Packing goodie bags was a relatively simpler task after our contracting stint earlier in the day. In fact, with so many of us at work, the job of putting different sweets, snacks and toys into the 500 plus bags was completed in about an hour and a half.
Hence, at 2pm, the team got together to spend time practicing and polishing up our dances, skits and songs, so as to be prepared for the performances and services that would follow in the days ahead. This, we did for 2.5 hours before proceeding to have our first opportunity at interacting with the children from the Seeds of Hope (SOH), as well as having the opportunity to play with adorable puppies and to take turns going on short pick-up rides around Kampong Speu.
Despite us being unable to communicate in Khmer, and some of the children being only somewhat fluent in English, we still managed to chat, play and have fun together. This short hour that we spent with the kids served well as a good warming-up opportunity and it certainly broke the ice and laid the ground for new friendships.
Around Kampong Speu in a Pick-up
The pick-up ride around Kampong Speu left many of us in awe, as this was the first time we could actually see the surroundings and catch a glimpse of how the Cambodians lived, worked and played. This experience was eye-opening indeed, because quite unlike the comfortable living quarters we had in the Centre, most of the Cambodians we saw lived in wooden shacks and huts, reared really skinny white cows, squeezed a family of four or five on the back of a scooter and kids swam in muddy ponds. Nevertheless, the views of the agricultural aspect of Cambodia were something new to us from city-Singapore. It struck me particularly that despite the poverty and the many unfulfilled wants of the Cambodian people, they were happy. They were always friendly, waving and smiling to us despite us being strangers. And it was then that I learnt how important it was to always have a smile on my face, despite what I am going through, the joys and tribulations alike, because I was very blessed, in comparison to the Cambodians. I was not lacking in essentials like food, water or clothes, and yet back in Singapore, it is so easy to be dissatisfied with what we have.
Christmas Decorations and the Rest of the Second Night
After interacting with the kids and the pick-up rides, we had dinner at 6 pm and then proceeded to set up and decorate a Christmas tree to put in the worship hall. Others helped with sorting the clothes, shoes and other items that we had brought over from Singapore to share with the Cambodians. At 9 pm, we had our team debrief and shared about how we felt about the trip thus far. We were also briefed on the programme for the days ahead. At about 10.30 pm, we took our tired selves and snuggled in our sleeping bags for a well-earned rest. This time, we slept much better, for no roosters crowed and no alarms rang at strange times and we were slowly getting used to our new home.